This week on Holidate: Missy from San Francisco and Carey from New York will switch cities and go on three blind dates each in the hopes of finding true love.

Born and raised in rural Pennsylvania on a farm, Carey always knew she belonged in the big city. She’s only had one long-term relationship, which she ended when he got to be too controlling. Carey is too often attracted to the smooth talking charmers that end up being jerks. And she doesn’t go for the corporate men who dominate New York.

She wants a sweet, down to earth guy who will enjoy traveling, cooking and treating her like a princess.

Carey will experience San Francisco’s most beautiful neighborhoods when she goes on a tour of Tomales Bay that ends in a private boathouse, sees the Golden Gate bridge like a true local, and enjoys amazing views on board one of the iconic cable cars in Pacific Heights.